Alone does not equal lonely

Embrace your time alone!

One of the many benefits of having several different personalities and voices reside in your psyche is that you are never alone. Someone, always very accepting and understanding is always there to hear you out and commiserate with you on any given topic.

"You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with." ~ Wayne Dyer

Perhaps you are trudging along trying to make it through the day. When you embrace all of your potentialities, you have the benefit of many forms of pep talk. These can be adhered to according to your specific mind-set at the time of need.

"If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company." ~ Jean Paul Sartre

According to a popular song, "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger...Just me, myself, and I..." That's all you can take to the bank with you, really...just YOU. 

JUST BECAUSE I AM SOLITARY DOESN'T MEAN I'M DESOLATE. JUST BECAUSE I'M ISOLATED DOESN'T MEAN I'M DESERTED OR ABANDONED. JUST BECAUSE I'M showing up by myself DOESN'T MEAN I'M FRIENDLESS, FORSAKEN, ABANDONED, UNLOVED, OUTCAST, APART, COMFORTLESS, OR EMPTY!!!

At some point in your life, you will need to decide whether or not you have hard-core beliefs or probable ideas. If you are open, you will be able to embrace relationships with so many others, even if they are only fleeting. You can gain your lessons and move on, or redefine your partnership for further growth. Before we mature, we don't understand this. We think that every relationship makes or breaks us and that each one should last forever in its initial form.

When we can embrace life and rejoice in its lessons, we can be comfortable with the transient nature of experiences and relationships.

Perhaps it (your relationship) will blossom one night per year. Perhaps it will encompass many generations. Put in the energy you wish to get out of it and you will continue spreading new perspectives and experiences that will come back to further enrich you.